My parents have been together 35 years…do you know how beautiful that is? Why is it that in this generation there’s a shortage of commitment?
There are not many people that can go through life without love or a companion but it’s the demands and impatience we have developed through the years…we’re now living in a ‘I want’ culture where everything is so accessible nothing is worth waiting around for. That in its self is the biggest shame. I would be a liar if I was to say I was patient but I’m trying my hardest to learn from my experiences.
Over the years a man’s idea of a ‘perfect’ (if that actually exists) women has transformed…..I’m sure my granddad loved my Nan for many more reasons but I know amongst all of that it was because she was a good cook and could look after the children and home well, alongside the fact she was what people in that day and age would call a respectable young lady from a good home lol. In this day and age if a guy was to run that by me I would slap him. Women’s aspirations have grown to un-reachable heights and because of these new ambitions their needs are no longer the same. We don’t want a bread winner. We want someone to cherish and respect us and sadly that in itself seems to be a rarity!!
There’s so much technology around that basically catalogues women and men of all types for all of us to abuse and take advantage of, for example Face book, dating websites, mobile phones etc etc Being single is the new married…..and its sad to say but unless we all try and instill certain values and qualities into our children they will all be living a promiscuous lonely lifestyle.
